So the row has ended badly! I think I've mad a mistake? How do I undo the unable? How do I take back the words that have already spewed out of my mouth?
I've made a mistake!
My eldest son has left! Me I'm devastated.
Saturday, 24 October 2015
Friday, 23 October 2015
Did anyone hear a boom? Then a little whoop as the children break up for school holidays!!
Home life!
Two sons rowing and one job lost! One wallet lost including driving license, debit card and concessionary pass! Rowing at the loudest note! Ok ok not my favourite day so far! Then my life I feel is about to explode it calms back down by everyone exiting the house with other things to do, reminds me of an explosion suddenly there's a boom then a sudden calm hopefully not another storm though!
Happy times the front door is open and in walks a ray of happiness and there's hugs and kisses to be had. A simple I've missed you mum today and hope your days been good. A little ray of sunshine who thinks of others before themselves. An insight, at present I'm off work sick, feeling terribly bored and longing for work life interaction again. Oh we're off the hand walking up and down the stairs in a perfect handstand is happening and all seems ok in the world!
1) You can't change the way people want to behave.
2) Your not at fault for others misgivings.
3) Be happy, make your own happiness.
4) Don't drown in others bad or senseless behaviour, leave them to make their own changes, let them simply be the person that they want to be! Not the person that you want them to be!
5) Make people be accountable for their behaviour, know that there are always consequences for bad behaviour and bad judgment!
6) You may be the mother, the mum and sometimes dad in one but don't blame yourself for every wrong! We are not indestructible, we are human, we bleed the same as everyone?!
7) Be happy!
8) Be yourself!
9) Always surround yourself with the right people, people who know your worth, people who know the value of your friendship!
10) Smile on the brightest days, Smile, laugh, giggle, love and be you on the darkest days.......
Two sons rowing and one job lost! One wallet lost including driving license, debit card and concessionary pass! Rowing at the loudest note! Ok ok not my favourite day so far! Then my life I feel is about to explode it calms back down by everyone exiting the house with other things to do, reminds me of an explosion suddenly there's a boom then a sudden calm hopefully not another storm though!
Happy times the front door is open and in walks a ray of happiness and there's hugs and kisses to be had. A simple I've missed you mum today and hope your days been good. A little ray of sunshine who thinks of others before themselves. An insight, at present I'm off work sick, feeling terribly bored and longing for work life interaction again. Oh we're off the hand walking up and down the stairs in a perfect handstand is happening and all seems ok in the world!
1) You can't change the way people want to behave.
2) Your not at fault for others misgivings.
3) Be happy, make your own happiness.
4) Don't drown in others bad or senseless behaviour, leave them to make their own changes, let them simply be the person that they want to be! Not the person that you want them to be!
5) Make people be accountable for their behaviour, know that there are always consequences for bad behaviour and bad judgment!
6) You may be the mother, the mum and sometimes dad in one but don't blame yourself for every wrong! We are not indestructible, we are human, we bleed the same as everyone?!
7) Be happy!
8) Be yourself!
9) Always surround yourself with the right people, people who know your worth, people who know the value of your friendship!
10) Smile on the brightest days, Smile, laugh, giggle, love and be you on the darkest days.......
Thursday, 22 October 2015
Nights off from gymnastics fancy walking on my hands!!! 👐
Gym free tonight, no training on a Thursday so it's a huffing and puffing child who states she's very bored!! 2 days a week with no training and you'd think the world was ending!! At present I have a child walking up and down on her hands in the hallway! Relaxing night for the parents and yet feels like tooth ache for my child. Oops now we are at present stretching our legs and arms!
13 and a teenager already knows she wants to go to university and what career path. I still think at my age I'd like a different career. However she has said she wants to be a physical education teacher and wants to make sport enjoyable, like her teachers do! At school she likes all sports and is on all teams from football to rounders and her favourite at school is athletics. I truly believe she was born to love sport and be a leader at it. I admire how humble she is and never gets above her station.
Can you be born sporty? Can you be born a natural leader? Can you be born beautiful inside and out or is this learnt?
13 and a teenager already knows she wants to go to university and what career path. I still think at my age I'd like a different career. However she has said she wants to be a physical education teacher and wants to make sport enjoyable, like her teachers do! At school she likes all sports and is on all teams from football to rounders and her favourite at school is athletics. I truly believe she was born to love sport and be a leader at it. I admire how humble she is and never gets above her station.
Can you be born sporty? Can you be born a natural leader? Can you be born beautiful inside and out or is this learnt?
Life sports and the universe, oh and politics!
So I've just realised my daughter maybe a five day training gymnast but to the power hungry mum this is their life??!
I have of often gone over the years before she turned elite to the nice happy gym chatted and then dropped off my daughter at the local gym. However that all changed when she advanced to her new gym, the elite power hungry mums that take over gym types! Time to drop off so many more sessions to do so little life left of my own, I just left never having time to stay and be the gossiping gerty! So you may have guessed I stayed!!
To the untrained eye you are now being watched, scrutinised and dissected! Your whole clothing is being priced and possibly being purchased! Your hand bag is even being questioned is it nice is it real? How much was it? How real it is will probably depend on the rest of the wardrobe your wearing and what vehicle you drive?? You just thought this was a gentle drop off and yet you've walked into a mind field of them and you!! This has all happened at the door just as you've walked in, the same group of women who stand there day in and day out in the same spot! You decide to smile and acknowledge the glares and wonder what initiation comes next? However there is silence so you walk to the viewing area and proceed to sit and watch. Wow there are normal mums there after all! Hi.........
I have of often gone over the years before she turned elite to the nice happy gym chatted and then dropped off my daughter at the local gym. However that all changed when she advanced to her new gym, the elite power hungry mums that take over gym types! Time to drop off so many more sessions to do so little life left of my own, I just left never having time to stay and be the gossiping gerty! So you may have guessed I stayed!!
To the untrained eye you are now being watched, scrutinised and dissected! Your whole clothing is being priced and possibly being purchased! Your hand bag is even being questioned is it nice is it real? How much was it? How real it is will probably depend on the rest of the wardrobe your wearing and what vehicle you drive?? You just thought this was a gentle drop off and yet you've walked into a mind field of them and you!! This has all happened at the door just as you've walked in, the same group of women who stand there day in and day out in the same spot! You decide to smile and acknowledge the glares and wonder what initiation comes next? However there is silence so you walk to the viewing area and proceed to sit and watch. Wow there are normal mums there after all! Hi.........
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